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What type of girl are you?

Materialistic vs. Romantic vs. Realistic

Where is the difference?

Well, materialistic obviously is about women (I talk from woman's perspective) who only cares about the bling or at least materials.... which is the complicated word for money. Materialistic women's dream are to find stupid rich guys and most of these women don't care if these stupid rich guys are married/single/teen/old/really old. They also don't care if these guys don't have that perfect hair/body/face. What they do care is how thick the guys' wallet is and how much they're willing to spend on women. Because guys who don't have the face/body/personality but have money tend to get desperate and don't care about how much money they spend for their women as long as they got them a woman.

Beautiful and sexy women, usually. For them, more money = more love. On dates, these women will never...repeat.. NEVER spend their money (obviously enough because their guys will pay for all the expenses including the women's shopping bags). This type of materialistic women are usually the popular ones. You usually can find this type when you see a standard-beautiful women with thick make-up and wearing full branded accessories and clothes. 

While romantic is for women who can only dream of a prince charming.

This type of women is the opposite of the materialistic one because romantic women are usually care about the personality of their guys. How sweet/nice/romantic the guys are. Unfortunately, this type of women is the ones who tend to get heart broken because they expect too much from their guys. Romantic women don't care how poor they will be if they marry their guys who's really sweet and nice and romantic but not that smart. What important for them is the love part. How much love the guys can give to them. On dates, same with the materialistic type, the romantic women expect that their dates will be paid by the guys, but they're rarely ask their guys to pay for their clothes. Maybe you heard stories about how rich women ended with a poor guy, well.. they are the examples of this type. You can find these women when you see women who stand by their guys' side even when the things get really tough since the beginning (ie. no decent house, no decent food) while the guys don't do anything about it. They are the ones who often say that "love is blind" or "love makes you stupid."


The last one is the realistic, which is the ones who don't agree with either materialistic women or romantic women. Because they know that money can't buy you happiness, but love can't give you food and the things you need. The realistic usually try to find decent smart guys with some money, not poor and not too rich (because the too-rich guys tend to choose the materialistic women). What they want in guys are their willing to work hard, to give some love (but not too much) and to balance things out. On dates, this type will also try to balance things. If their guys pay for movie, then dinner is on them and vice versa. They will be very upset if somehow these realistic women ended with materialistic guys because it's never a good match.

When realistic combine with romantic, they will stand by their guys side even if they know they're going to have a really tough life AS LONG AS they're sure that their guys will at least try to turn things up. If they realize then that their guys are as lazy as a donkey, they will leave them right that second.

In some special cases, you can find a woman who is usually a materialistic type now turns into romantic type. But it's really rare, that's why they covered it by saying "It's true love."

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